Why I Want My Kids to Lose

Why I Want My Kids to Lose

In the era of participation trophies, competition is slowly becoming extinct. Field day used to be a day of striving to win ribbons, but now everyone goes home a winner. But I don’t want my kids to always win. In fact, sometimes I want them to lose…

I am Not a Better Mother Than You Just Because I Have More Kids

I am Not a Better Mother Than You Just Because I Have More Kids

When I had my first child, I was given all of the congratulatory remarks that you would expect when you have a baby, and people were genuinely happy for me.  However, no one marveled at the fact that I had that child.  No one treated me like I had accomplished something amazing.  Having one child, though wonderful, was not necessarily remarkable. It did not make me special…

When Did “Virgin” Become a 4-Letter Word?

When Did “Virgin” Become a 4-Letter Word?

The Bachelor, Colton Underwood, has been very widely criticized for his virginity, with people using it as the reason that he couldn’t possibly be ready to get married. One woman used “cupcakes” as a euphemism for his virginity, saying that someone surely must sample many cupcakes before they could ever be ready for marriage. Let’s evaluate this logic…