When Did “Virgin” Become a 4-Letter Word?

When Did “Virgin” Become a 4-Letter Word?

The Bachelor, Colton Underwood, has been very widely criticized for his virginity, with people using it as the reason that he couldn’t possibly be ready to get married. One woman used “cupcakes” as a euphemism for his virginity, saying that someone surely must sample many cupcakes before they could ever be ready for marriage. Let’s evaluate this logic…

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When Did Getting Offended Become a Badge of Honor?

When Did Getting Offended Become a Badge of Honor?

We live in a world where just about everything can be offensive.  We are being conditioned to walk on eggshells, be politically correct, and avoid offending at all costs.  It has almost gotten to the point where people seem to think that they have to be offended in order to show that they care about a cause…

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Don’t Double Your Trouble

Don’t Double Your Trouble

“In trouble, to be troubled is to have your trouble doubled.” – Daniel Defoe. 
“Troubles come unto all of us at some point in our lives, and if we allow the troubles of life to cause undue stress, fret, and worry, then we have added trouble to our troubles…

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When Silence is Betrayal

When Silence is Betrayal

“There comes a time when silence is betrayal.” – Martin Luther King, Jr. 
“Loyalty to family, loyalty to friends, loyalty to God, and loyalty to truth and justice will not prevail in silence.  There is a time to be still, and a time to be silent, but there are times when silence is betrayal…

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Take Pride in the Small Tasks

Take Pride in the Small Tasks

“I long to accomplish a great and noble task, but it is my chief duty to accomplish small tasks as if they were great and noble.” – Helen Keller
“There is power in time and there is power in persistence, and if we are persistent over time we shall achieve greater things…

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“Freedom Lies in Being Bold.” -Robert Frost

“Freedom Lies in Being Bold.” -Robert Frost

“To be free is to not be captive.  There are many things in life that can make us captive or make us feel captive.  The plight of our condition can lead to feelings of hopelessness and helplessness, which can cause us to feel that we are captive, prisoners to the pattern of our lives…

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What I Want Now

What I Want Now

“There are struggles that dwell within most hearts, be they young or old, and for some the struggles fought within are few and easily won, but for others the struggles within seem constant and keep hearts weary and troubled.  It is the battle between right and wrong, good and evil, light and darkness…

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The Number One Reason I Don’t Fight with my Husband

The Number One Reason I Don’t Fight with my Husband

Though most would probably never believe this, I can honestly say that in 12 years married and 16 years together, my husband and I have never had a fight, not one.  This is not to say that we have never disagreed, that we have never annoyed each other, that we have never hurt each other’s feelings…

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Choose to Chill – Make the CHOICE to Never Stress

Choose to Chill – Make the CHOICE to Never Stress

“Just chill!”  It is something I say to my children, particularly my high-strung third child, many times a day.  They begin to get worked up about something that is easily fixed.  The heart rates rise and the voices get shrill.  They are beginning to panic – and usually it’s over nothing…

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Break the Silence

In the silence around me there is a voice that clearly speaks unto my heart and mind. I walk alone in this world, and most do not notice and very few seem to see. I rise up and I go through my days, and there is silence around me but no silence within. For there is a voice of love that calls unto me to remind me that I belong to someone…

Comfort and Wisdom

“The old man was sleeping peacefully in the bed, and in the hospital room all was quiet except for the occasional clicking of the machine that would dispense medicine for his pain.  Asleep in the chair by his side was his wife of fifty-two years.  The man in the blue suit walked quietly to the bed…

Flourish Where the Lord has Planted You

“Like a dandelion flower that springs forth from a small crack in the pavement, some people must struggle against many obstacles.  No child determines the time of their birth, where they will be born, or unto whom they will be born, and with life some obstacles are established by life itself.  Flowers must survive where they are planted or where they spring forth, but with mankind there is the freedom to choose…

The Mountains Majestically Rise Up

“The mountains majestically rise up above the changing landscape of the earth, and the oceans sound forth their power and might with each wave that crashes upon the shores of the land, and the heavens above with clouds of white and storms that rage are but a veil to the innumerable stars that forever shine…

“Kindness is a language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see.”  -Mark Twain 

“Words and actions must be in unity and harmony within our soul to bring forth the language of love that can be seen by the blind and heard by the deaf.  We live in a world where many are blind to the hurt their words and actions cause, and many are deaf to the voices that call unto them for kindness, tenderness, and love…

Between Heart and Mind

“There is a battle fought, a war that doth rage between heart and mind,
Why must war rage between words of the heart and words of the mind?
Does the mind follow the heart or does the heart surrender to the rule of the mind?
In my heart there is a vision of who I am, but in my mind I am not always the same…

The Rose of Spring

“From the ashes I shall rise, from the depths of the deepest sorrow I shall climb, 
This day to climb out of bed is the best I can do, but from these ashes I shall rise. 
A fog surrounds me, and all I feel is pain in my heart as I seek to comprehend such loss, 
Tears were shed seeking great mercy and now tears flow from hearts that are broken…

The Secrets of the Heart

“There are no walls more impenetrable than those erected within the human heart.  There are no secrets more vanquishing than the ones locked deep within the human heart.  There is no silence as complete as the unspoken words of the heart…

“What other dungeon is so dark as one’s own heart?  What jailer so inexorable as one’s self?” -Nathaniel Hawthorne

“We are told that the truth will set us free, but for many the truth makes them a prisoner to their past, for that which is hidden and locked within their minds and hearts removes the power of truth.  There is great power in truth, but some hearts are such dark dungeons that the words of truth will not penetrate and will not free them…

Tattered and Torn

“Tattered and torn are the signs that declared that the circus is coming to town – signs stapled to utility poles and on the sides of an old barn, signs faded by time and worn by the rain and the sun.  All were once colorful and new, and the images and the words upon them brought joy to many a child’s heart.  Faded memories of the events of a childhood now past,..